Anyone with experience in the active world may have encountered this exercise before. A classic improv game that revolves around cooperation, communication, and creative thinking, it’s fast-paced, funny, and full of opportunities to become a tighter-knit team!
How to play “Yes, and?”
You can play “Yes, and” in pairs, but we prefer it in a larger group. Standing in a circle, the basic idea is to work together to create a silly story, one statement at a time, using the words “yes and” to drive the plot forward. The goal is to make each new statement more exaggerated.
One person starts with a simple statement, then makes clear eye contact with whoever they want to continue the tale. For example:
- “The house is built on rock.”
- “Yes, and the rock is starting to crumble.”
- “Yes, and it’s falling down the hillside.”
- “Yes, and the house is tumbling with it.”
- “Yes, and superman is coming to save us.”
- “Yes, and he looks like he got dressed in a hurry.”
The goal is to cultivate a fun and carefree atmosphere and to keep the story moving as quickly as possible. Rather than pausing to think of the “right thing” to say, each person should relate the first “yes, and” phrase that comes to mind.
It doesn’t have to make sense – the sillier, the better!
This game can be a tad daunting at the start. But that’s almost the point. By talking without thinking, each team member opens themselves up to being vulnerable.
Far from being mocked, though, they’re celebrated. They discover they can be themselves around their colleagues, which is a huge boost to morale and levels of trust within the team.
What you need:
- Nothing more than a positive attitude! However, having a few simple statements up your sleeve to get the ball rolling may help.
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